Exactly what I was thinking, Doc. We say we want a man to be all loving and sappy, but in reality we walk all over those guys and go for someone who is much more of a challenge. And TAL's H is a challenge.
Tal,
I would go for equality in the relationship. That is, division of labor. He wants you to take care of the kids and the home. That means he is not the visiting boss who shows up occasionally just to criticize you. And you won't try to run the business. But negotiate it calmly. no fireworks.
