Frank, I'm really right there with you as far as my fluxuating feelings are concerned. I had no idea that setting my boundaries would cause my husband to go dark. In your case, your wife did just the opposite. It's amazing how life often works, isn't it?
Yeah, it is. I really think she's slowly working her way 'out' of the relationship. A lot of people say that she doesn't act like someone who wants to get divorced but I think she just doesn't know HOW to get divorced and is taking 'baby steps' out of the nest.