"And living their lives feeding on every last contact, word or visit etc. And when there is none...they are bereft. And that is 100% arrogance and ego. That is making the H an idol."
Maybe for some but to make the H an idol???? I am not so sure many do that. I think those that are very clingy and beg may fall in that category but not all.
Arrogance? I am not so sure about that. I think when you have been with your life partner for so long and have had a good marriage and are open with one another, yeah, you cherish the visits and it is sad to see them go but I would not quite take it that far.
Yes, you have to follow God but everyone has to be led by Him to be taught as it can be difficult to do. Not many people we come in contact with on a daily basis would even think of doing such a thing. I think that is why people who have chosen this harder path find it very lonely.
It is a learning process.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
