You are making sense Tal....and I can say I have had those same thoughts in the past....but I now, although I dread the children leaving and life changing, I can also see positives to H and I having more time together. I think where you are at the moment is a paricularly tricky time.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength