I don't think it's a good idea to ask him for help figuring out where you went wrong in the R. Trust me, I did that and it backfired hugely. Go into it very carefully if you do decide to take that route. It could end up just reminding him of all the things about you that he doesn't like and push him further away. Just MHO.
Take care of you!!!!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
