I'm tired of reading about making excuses for the cheating spouse, like they can't help themselves. Who started that? I'd like to kick him/her. I imagine it was probably a cheater that started it. What's the point of making boundaries like, "NO CONTACT", when there isn't any consequence other than you feeling bad? Continue on and you'll dispell any worries that you'll leave him if he continues contact with OW....he'll know you are so desperate for him that he can pretty much do what he wants in regards to OW.

Last edited by Phoenixdeux; 09/03/08 05:08 PM.
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