Thing is you are enabling her as much as "pig friend". It's not a matter of going dark, it's a matter of not feeding her fire, not giving her ammo. You are the blame right now, you take you out of the equation, she has to take responsibility for her feelings or whatever. It would also give you a chance to slow down.

Last edited by phoenyx; 09/03/08 04:33 PM.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.