Dear PH, I accidently ran across a woman today whom had been in one of my local Divorcebusting seminars a few years ago. At that time, it was not hopeful that her H would "come around". She realized that she needed to go to God for her patience, peace, and wisdom and to have Him help her decide how to make wise decisions. She also said it was a very lonely road - fighting for you M with no one around her to support her decision. Her solace was in taking everything to God to help her make even small decisions about how she should act in certain situations w/her H. She said the biggest thing He helped her with was to keep her heart soft enough to maintain a friendly relationship with him. It was not easy and it was a long road, but they are together. And God softened her H's heart as well. I pass that story on, hoping it will inspire you as it inspired me.
PH, I hope you don't mind my quoting this post by Laurie on Aug 31. I just read it and it confirms what I have read from the bible about God answering prayers.
And thank you for being the person you are, staying faithful through all of what you are going through.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
