Hey Sawks...I am glad to hear you are doing well. You know we only give you advice because you are a part of our little group and we worry.
At any rate, what are the alternatives w/ regard to the house if you decide not to keep it?
I crunched numbers this morning, and I don't want it. I am going to start looking for a cheap place to rent that will take me and my dog and my cat. Move what was agreed on into storage for now. I can downsize so much for way less money. If I did the house, i would be house poor, not quite but things would be alot tighter than I am used to. I work hard , I don't want that. I will once again see if she is interested in finding a friend to move in with her, so this process can move along. At this point if she continues to get angry over things I am doing, things will only go sour. I'd rather keep the split amicable. I appreciate all the advice lola, i hope i don't come accross as arrogant or angry, because i am not. I am me. I like me and where i am alot!