Of course what you are saying is correct, but when emotions are involved, its a whole other story.
What i haven't posted is that he does try and tell me how to raise the kids, this is my other issue with him. Constent critizism.
I take responsibility for allowing to go on as long as it has, it hasen't gotten better, its gotten worse.I know I made the choice to marry him at 19 years old, I was young and blind. It really started getting even worse after I had the boys.
I know I've changed and so has he. I don't have as much patience with his attitude then I once did. I'm getting to the point that my tolerance of it is dwindling rapidly.
Yes I will have to make that decision.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
