Trying not to count my chickens!

[Nature Girl]

Hi Upside,

You really sound frustrated. I can't blame you, I'm frustrated for you!

I think these mlc-ers just can't deal with our feelings at all, so letting them know about our feelings is probably going to backfire. They are having such a difficult time dealing with their own feelings.

I hope there comes a time in reconciliation when we do get to release our feelings in front of our spouse. I guess your H is just not ready for that yet. Or maybe sometimes he can handle that, but other times he can't.

A question for those that have R'd...when is that?

I'm asking for upside since my H is no where close to even cycling.