Good for you! It takes a lot of yourself to step back and say that you will not be preoccupied with talking about the OW. It is a shame that he can't giving up talking to her. But you are right. You can't allow this to get you down. Stop being sad and do things you enjoy.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08