Good for you! It takes a lot of yourself to step back and say that you will not be preoccupied with talking about the OW. It is a shame that he can't giving up talking to her. But you are right. You can't allow this to get you down. Stop being sad and do things you enjoy.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08