Originally Posted By: jon2911
Originally Posted By: redsawks44
anyways bottom line is the cousin said she is likely just mad because u got the upper hand and have found someone new before she did. I don't think she expected you to move on yet.

Careful what you wish for, she wished for all of this, she got it


She didn’t think you’d move on so quickly? That's good! Maybe divorce is what she thought she wanted, but now she's reconsidering. Maybe she thought you’d actually change? And you started to, and maybe she secretly started to believe that this could work?

But now you’re going off the deep end…

Originally Posted By: redsawks44
Again I will get slammed, and if i do, i guess i will rethink posting anymore. But i have made friends here and wanted to just update them.


You won’t get slammed here, we’re all in the same boat.

Originally Posted By: redsawks44
today W called me at 4 PM, and said are u planning on coming home to feed the dogs? I said no, we made arrangements that i would be gone all weekend, as she is gone for a week starting tuesday. I got hung up on.. sheeesh.


Sawks, come on man, keep it nice. Remember what a nasty divorce will cost you. She's starting to reach out to you, and it's in your best interest to keep the friendship, even if the marriage dies.


She is gone for a week to the mountains, ahhh peace. either way, I got approved to keep the house on my own yesterday , now i have to decide whether or not i actually want to stay in that house. I was thinking more about moving to the other side of the city to be away from all her friends. I will decide in a week, she would have a big payout to me and I don't think she can pull it off.