You are going to get through this too!!!! I know you will. We're all praying with you...hang in there. Just Monday the hairdresser (a total stranger) told you that amazing story about her life...God sent her as a messenger to you (and then you to me). He's telling you (us) to hang in there...He's working!!!!
Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
Stay strong girl, the Lord works in mysterious ways you have no idea what he has planned you can only follow his word and believe in him to bring you to a better place...
Ok Laura, We talked about this. We knew not to have too high of expectations. Dear God, please intercede and take this burden off of my dear friend. Give her strength and wisdom and the peace of knowing that you will bring her all her heart desires in your time.
Soften her H's heart and let him see the love that he is surrounded by. Let him find the burden of guilt to be too great and your will so strong that he can not spurn you in what you desire most.
PS: Its a good thing my shot gun is under lock and key. And its in my state. And I don't have a plane ticket to fly there. And my hunting license is expired. And, well, because I'm a darn good shot and don't want to waste the ammunition. You get the idea.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
You are going to get through this too!!!! I know you will. We're all praying with you...hang in there. Just Monday the hairdresser (a total stranger) told you that amazing story about her life...God sent her as a messenger to you (and then you to me). He's telling you (us) to hang in there...He's working!!!!
Amy
I know he is Amy. H still has an "upset stomach and headache." Guilt must suck. He just left to go eat lunch at school with D8. Was nice and changed the registration on my car to the new address when he did his car. Wonder if he renewed it, too? I guess I should check that, huh? Oh, and his car--still registered to our address. That is the address he put on his driver's license when he renewed it, also.
SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
I know you are non-confrontational with him about the affair, but he has made a big mistake here. He should not be flaunting an affair in front of the children. He brought the bag into a child's room and left it open with the card visible. Does he think she cannot read? Why bother pretending he is visiting a "friend" when she can read the card and see that it is not a male friend but a woman in love? He should not be bringing his affair into your home.
Well, he is in between lunches with the girls, so now he is over at my mom's moving firewood for her. Just called to ask me where she needed it moved to. WTF????
He has not even spoken to my mom since May!! And all this cause I mentioned needig to go over to help her, since she hurt her back.
I am going to feed the boys before my brain explodes.
SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
