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No, you don't handle it, you give it all to God!! You are doing pretty good and I hope your parents come and see you often.


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H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
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Originally Posted By: MidwesternGirl
No, you don't handle it, you give it all to God!! You are doing pretty good and I hope your parents come and see you often.


Thanks MWG! You are so right, I have to give it all to God!!!!

I'm really tired today but I'm going to work on more things in the yard. I do hope my parents can come often, I enjoyed them being here. It also gives my Mom a chance to rest some, she is always busy when they are at home.

I so admire your faith MWG! You have been so strong thru this storm & I know why, b/c God has carried you thru it.

(((HUGS)))

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Oh, if I did not have my faith, I would not be here, and I would be divorced, not to mention, it would have been a nasty battle.

Keep doing what you are doing as that is all you can do at the moment.


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Just wanted to say that I am thinking of you. (((HUGS)))

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Hi MWG,

Well, I prayed & prayed that it wouldn't get to a D but it did. And, it was a nasty battle, but I had to look out for myself. I hate it & I hope he doesn't resent me for it. He just rushed everything so much, my head is still spinning!!!

I am just trying to have faith.

Thank you for being here for me!!!

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Hi True!

Thank you for checking in & thinking about me. I sure am proud to have all my friends here on this site. I wouldn't have made it if you all had not been here for me.

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Hi Nlt,
Like you said to me, you keep hanging in there as well. We're all here for one another.

HUGS!!!!


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Thank you Addie!!!!

I'm trying my best to hang in there. I guess so lonesome for my H but I know right now I won't be hearing from him. I feel like I will eventually but then again you just never know.

I have to keep praying!!

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Take it day by day and have zero expectations. That is the only way to get thru this and of course prayer and patience.


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NLT you are doing so good. You had to take care of yourself back then because your h was not.

Even though you are D it is only a piece of paper. God can work miracles, but we have to have faith. Walk by faith not by sight.

I know so hard, but this could be a test from God!


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H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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