As i've said before in my posts, my W and I use facebook. I don't use it as much now, partly because it can be hard to speak to W and partly because I don't want to seem like i'm not GALing. There is a status on there, and my W's status yesterday changed to confused. She told me it's not about me, and I left it at that, she also told me that it wouldn't become "bad confused" (make her upset and depressed). Today it has changed to "really confused". I think it is because of her Emotional Affair person giving her mixed signals, one of his friends told me he will never look at her like that, but if that is the case, he IS giving her mixed signals, he has dinner there every thursday (i can deal with that, it hurt but i'm over it) but he goes over there more and more. I think she is being confused by him.
My friends and his friends are not comfortable with their relationship at the moment and haven't been for a long time. One of them was going to talk to him about it a month ago but never did. I told him that it was up to him, and that yeah, it would be good, but don't do it because of me. He never did, and aparrently since we have been appart there relationship has changed (not to be a couple, but i think they don't have to care as much because i don't see it and get hurt). Should I tell my friend that knows him to say something, or should I just leave it?
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