Ready2Change (6) - Temp Orders

[Ready2Change]

Time to reflect:

I want to do what is best for our M.

Being separated has been a wonderful growth period for me. Amazing how D allows one to grow....

I want to do what is best for our kids.

This is my driving factor for all my actions, words and thoughts.

I want to listen (really listen) to W.

Wow, still hard to do this...I am getting better. More work to do in this area.

I want more effective and frequent communication.

Communication is still not where it needs to be. The lack of communication is still causing issues....

I don't want to get mad or angry.

I have come a long way on this one. W's actions and mood do not affect me much. She can be angry all she wants. Her choice not mine.

I want to spend more one on one time with W.

This one is still on hold.

I want to do more family activities.

This one is full steam ahead! Me and the kids are having a great time together.....

I want to spend more one on one time with each of our kids.

I am getting this while I let the other two play together. Painting D6 toes tonight was a good bonding time!

I want to let W have the freedom to do what she wants.

She is as free as a bird! I have no desire to control what W does. It is her life to live!

I want W to let me have the freedom to do what I want.

This is the best of all. I have full control of my life. I have full control of my kids when they are with me. I feel free!!!!!!