I'm not one of the elite DBers but it seems to me that if she is telling you to initiate more contact that would be a green light to "try" it on a limited scale. You must be careful not to persue or put any pressure or do R talk.
I envision waiting a few days and then contacting her for once, have a good reason, and a game plan, IE be able to act as if. Also I think it wouldn't hurt to have a reason to get off the phone as well just in case things arn't going the way you want.
Remember to "listen" and validate...
It's your call if you want to try it. Then if you do you can evaluate the results.
Think on it you don't have to decide this "right now."
Good luck.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
