Sandi, I hope not. It was very sage advice. I did the complete opposite of what you said when my H returned the first time and within three weeks things were going down hill. I did not find me at that time, only made changes for him and none of them were true changes.
Hope mdw comes back. Piecing is not a piece of cake by any means.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008