Sandi, I hope not. It was very sage advice. I did the complete opposite of what you said when my H returned the first time and within three weeks things were going down hill. I did not find me at that time, only made changes for him and none of them were true changes.

Hope mdw comes back. Piecing is not a piece of cake by any means.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1599046&page=0&fpart=1