Yep - I'm still around Coach. Just been taking a break from here.
So Again, I want to thank you & JenInVen - for keeping my head on straight - in my last little crisis.
Monday, I had another session w/my DBcoach. It seems I will be playing the mystery/jealousy card with my H next. Well, that's not what she called it. Hopefully, I will get the convertable this weekend. I'm supposed to just switch cars & leave or if he comes over not invite him in & do the car trade. His business is his business & my business is my business. BTW I plan on wearing something sexy for an added punch.
So men what do you think??
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
So Again, I want to thank you & JenInVen - for keeping my head on straight - in my last little crisis.
Isn't that what we are here for. Still think I owe you beer.
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I will be playing the mystery/jealousy card with my H next
OK, I like it.
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I'm supposed to just switch cars & leave or if he comes over not invite him in & do the car trade. His business is his business & my business is my business. BTW I plan on wearing something sexy for an added punch.
Makes sense plus it will make him wonder. OOOOHHHH Sexy Mel. Plus the tattoo? Gosh Mel you got me interested now.
Just keep working on you. Either way you come out stronger and better. I see you keep posting on other's threads, I think that helps us see a little more clearly. You have come a long way MsMel. I am glad for you!
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Well, no tattoo yet. Ah, but it's much easier to be confident & strong & not so jealous here. The test will be when I see my H - cuz - like all here - I really want to spend time w/him.
Really, the detachment thread has been one of my saviors.
Maybe - I should ask my H if he's going to wash, wax & buff the car for me. (Yes - he has a car buffer). Oh & make sure to use the wheel brightener. My H says guys look at the wheels of a car too...... women ..... not.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
MsMel, Confident and strong - very,very sexy. Visualise what you will do and say when you see him. Practice it in your head.
I read the detachment thread after last Friday per your instructions. Yes it is good.
Wheels? Be the sexy woman behind the wheel. That's what guys look at.
You are doing great. Coming to my birthday party?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Ok, need some advise here. Anyone around??? so here's what I emailed my H about our car trade.
Hey - So I would like to have the Del Sol on Friday the 5th, through the weekend. I will be available most of the day on Friday. Can you bring the car here or meet me some place or can I stop by your place? What makes the most sense?
Here's what he emailed back. (BTW - the Sam is the suspected OW)
Is it posible to trade next weekend? You can have the car for the whole week if you want. Sam is moving out this weekend and things are very crazy with her friends being over packing and stuff. I am trying to make sure none of my stuff is stolen and still staying as far away from them as I can.
Really, I would like to ask if I could just stop by his job to get it. I don't want to hang out - just get the car. I have plans for the weekend too. Any thoughts???? I'm at work so be back later.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
I want to say something like. Why don't I just stop by your work on your break on Friday & we trade cars or I could stop by Thursday evening. On Monday I can do the same thing. Then neither one of our weekend plans are affected.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
"I'm sorry things are hectic for you right now. I was really looking forward to using the car this weekend. I don't mind meeting you somewhere just to trade cars."
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Hey JenInVen - howdo??? Thanks for answering me .... you seem to be a lifesaver. I really like your statment. I am on vacation Friday & Monday to trade cars. Should I add that in?
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
