BC, I'm so sorrry. This must have hit you like a ton of bricks. I agree with Puppy, don't make any hasty decisions. Take time to think before you speak, no matter what it is. Just listening will speak volumes to her...
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon