In fact PH this has been part of our issues. He wants to have the final say in all the decision making from big to small and then he says Glam you handle it. Oh gee!

I am a take charge person, so this is difficult for me. Not that I don't want to, but I was out of the house at 18 have always handled my own and very well. Don't need anyone to take care of me, like that when they do, but will survive on my own and do quite well.

So now I try to include h in all the decision making like h this is not working what do you suggest, we need a new blow dryer where should I shop for one. If I don't include h he accuses me of making all the decisions and we are back at square 1.

The key is to let him THINK he is in charge! Wink Wink!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"