W pregnant with OM's child.......

[badcompany]

devastation........

[hoosiermama]

I'm so sorry. How awful.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

BC,

I am so very sorry to hear this, man. I know you and I have had our differences, but NOBODY deserves this kind of pain; this kind of betrayal.

How did you find out? What's going on?

Puppy

[badcompany]

OM is more worried that his girlfriend left him because of this than how my wife is dealing. He wishes he would die. No common sense

[badcompany]

Puppy she came to get our son and told me. She went with OM to the hospital today for blood tests to confirm. OM's girlfriend left him when he told her. Wife says she is f***ed and feels like she is made to pay for what she has done

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Does your son know?

I know you're probably reeling right now. Just try not to say or so anything that's un-doable later on. Try to give grace; forgiveness. It may serve you down the line.

Puppy

[badcompany]

my son turns two in 3 weeks. He has no clue that mommy and daddy aren't together even. He is free from knowing everything thankfully.

[badcompany]

Well I'm sure he realizes I am not living there, and the three of us aren't ever together much, that's all he knows

[badcompany]

I took my wife's hand and told her I was here for her

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I took my wife's hand and told her I was here for her

Good for you, BC. Just because you don't agree with her choices, doesn't mean you can't give grace, and forgiveness, and support. Just don't RESCUE; instead, VALIDATE.

Never rescue an adulterer from the consequences of their adultery.

Puppy