And yes, in many ways, he has gotten better. He promised to do this HUGE to-do list to the house before the D happened. I never asked once, and the list is almost done. He works non stop on the house on his off days, and his off days are rare. Not only does he get to work on time, but he picks up overtime whenever possible, and has worked weeks in a row without off days. He also is very reliable with the girls so I can go to work, and still keeps the house spotless when he watches them.
Just doesn't want to stay married.
In all seriousness though, it would not have done anyone any good for him to lose his job, nor will it do me any good to push push push at this point, and have to fight for what he is already agreeing to at this point.
