Upside I do believe things will progress for you. Should I mention how long between calls before my h would even think about calling us? That doesn't matter because now he is calling frequently.

If I were you, stop asking why he didn't call or what you are planning for the weekend. Your h needs to say Upside lets go to a movie or call you etc.

I know this is most difficult, but let him chase you or invite you. Wouldn't that feel better?


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"