Ok, new goals time. I have reached some and some are off the table for now so I making a new list.
1. H stays and has a glass of wine with me at least once a week when he is at the house. He did this last night already so I am good for this week. Yeah.
2. H invites me to lunch within the next three weeks. Hoping I can create a frienship bond and that he will want to spend lunch with me one day soon.
3. H starts to open up even more with me about how he is feeling. Started today to tell me some of his thought and I hope that he continues to do so.
4. H reaches out to me with IM and email this week, wanting to have a talk about something other thatn D or son. Would like to see a funny email from him.
5. Continue to get more hugs from H. Gave me first one last night and my second one today. Did say he was scared that it might give me hope that we might get back together. I reassured him I knew where he stood and that hugs are just nice.
6. Longer term goal...H stops bringing up D or mediation for at least two weeks.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
