Sara, thanks for telling me. Up until this year, my S has loved school. With all of the changes that are occuring and his depression, attending a new school just became too much. The thing is the teacher does not see anything wrong with my son. Did not think that he should be transfered out of her class and the principal agreed. Here I am the parent, telling them the severity of his problems and they just are not listening. I am affraid that if we wait too long, then switching will actually harm him. They have only been in class three weeks so I still think it is early enough to do it.
I hate being a complainer, but when it comes to my S, I will do anything. I am NOT going to back down from this. My goal is to get him back to his old private school next year. He loved it there and was very popular. He excelled. Hopefully this will only be a one year event.
H is here right now spending the evening with our S. I did not feel good enough to get out of the house like I have every other time so have stayed out of their way. Whenever H comes to ask me a question, I always have a smile on my face. I am joking with him when he is around but wondering if I am going to far and might be pushing him. I am not discouraged that he still says he does not love me. Rebuilding takes time and I have faith in us. Fear is keeping him from taking that leap into trying, IMO. After all, it was pretty ugly there for awhile. I can not expect anything less. Heck, on the positive side, it has only been three weeks since he has started to warm up and I have already gotten 2 hugs in less than 24 hours. Again, not reading anything into this, it is just nice to get them.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008