TIPPER'S 3rd thread - Piecing Pointers

[Trixi]

Hey Tipper-
I think our H's are more alike, than not.
My H is now in a band. They aren't playing live (yet) but are rehearsing 2-3 times per week and are trying get something recorded.

He is drinking WAY more than when we were together.

We don't live together.

He has a 25yo guy (that is in the same band) living with him. His studio has now take over a huge bonus room that we used to share as on office.
Since I moved out, the room I used for my glass activities is now taken by the roommate, the office we shared is taken up with instruments, mics, etc. The spare room that used to be the guest room is now his office. .. I am quite sure part of why my H doesn't want me to move back in is because he is living it up as a 'single' guy.

My H is my best friend. He took me to Costa Rica in April. We are "dating" exclusively currently.
But.
But I am not sure that I see things moving forward.

I didn't mean to crititcize your desire to save your marriage.
I just wanted to be sure that you are looking out for 'tipper'.