Tired of Uncertainty....what's your take ?

[marisol35]

Hi BC,

I'm new to this forum and have been following your story.

My H moved out on Aug 21st. He is having an A with a 21 yr old who works at his company. This is his second affair in 5 months. We have only been married a year but we have known each other for about 18 years. We have a 16 yr old D together and were high school sweethearts. He left us when she was 2 and married someone else. They had a son then he divorced her when his son was about 4 yrs old.

Long story short I am at the starting point of GALing and understanding the whole A situation and my heart goes out to you because from your posts you can see how much you love her the same way I love him. I was always there for him throughout all these years even when he was married (that was the hardest part).

I admire how much you love her. It is so hard to see the person you love loving someone else. I just don't know if I can get through this again.

I am here to support you.