She told me tonight that she isn't going to, and that she doesn't want to.
They all say that in some form or another. Don't take stock in her words. It doesn't feel good but nothing makes sense coming from a WAS. Mine said the same thing only to suggest we "date" a few weeks later.
Continue to DB, If you don't feel LRT is right No problem, your choice. You want to act happy and upbeat, avoid R talk, GAL and work on your 180's. Most importantly do not persue, give her space and limit contact to times when you are able to act calm cool and collected...and happy.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08