thanks for the input Sandi!! I've been so wrapped up studying for midterms....H is taking a backseat for now...haven't text him in a few days...gives me time to think of something really good...and maybe if i give him a little break his mind will start to wonder a bit!! And he will be more prone to respond!!!
as for the pool, one of my friends drove by the place and said he was hauling water to it...so evidently, he is working on it...i can't help but wonder if he was just trying to pick a fight...or seeing how i would react...who knows. men!! j/k guys!!!
well more midterm studying to do!!!
hope all is well in your world!! At least this is definitely keeping me preoccupied!
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
I'm glad that your life is so full b/c it does keep one's mind from just dwelling on their personal stitch all the time. You know, if he has slowed down with the women and bar scene (and I don't know that he has.....just wondering) then it won't be long until he is going to start feeling the lonliness. I think you are on him mind a lot more than he would admit to anyone, most of all......himself.
Do good on your test and let us know when it's all over and how your aced it.
Later, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
sandi~ I hope you are correct, in the fact H is getting lonely!! that would be wonderful!! I have heard from his friends he stays home a lot...he hasn't said to either of the friends i chat with anything about any women...which is good. I agree, he will never admit it if he does miss me, even a little!!!
I hope to ace the test...that would be awesome!!
take care, Christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
Hey sweetie, just checking in on ya. Hope you had a good day. Have you heard anything out of Forrest lately? Guess I'm going to have to look him up and make sure he's still kicking. Oh lordy! (lol)
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I think FG is MIA!!!!FG come out come out whereever you are!!!
I haven't random text the H in a while...been so busy with school work, it's just kept me rather preoccupied...plus the fact he hasn't responded to the past 4 or 5 that i sent...it's disgruntling! any suggestions??
off to school i go!!
thanks for checking in sandi!
christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
If texting isn't working with your H, you should probably try another tactic.
Have you talked to a DB coach?
Are there other methods of communication that have worked in the past? Email or even a phone call or a direct invite to do something?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
I have a coach!! She is great...Jodi!!! I haven't talked with her in a while, probably 2-3 months...may give her a shout later this week or next...dependent on school sched.
He will answer when I call him...but usually turns into a fight of some type, so was using texting as a neutral, trying to get him calm before I tried anything more agressive....if that makes sense!!
thanks for checking in ITH!! Hope things are going well with you
Christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
Just wondering why calling "turns into" a fight? Is there a way that you could call and have this be a 180, a call where you will not engage in any kind of fight whatsoever?
I'm not clear on what causes the arguments? Are there some topics that are just too sensitive to discuss? Would it be possible just to call and say hi, or to call and even invite him for coffee or something?
Or is he antagonistic on the phone?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
What does your coach think causes his anger, Christa? Does she think you should continue to pursure or to back off until he gets through this anger towards you? I wished he'd buy a punching bag and hurry the process up a bit!
Let us know as soon as you get your grade on your exam! Here's hoping.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
