Hi Ali! You know, that the DB and DR books tell us to do something different until we find something that works...maybe you need to think BIG Ali.
I am very excited about November. It's great that he's planning ahead and I'm included more than just because of D. He said today "I'm not going to invite too many people. You invite some of your friends, I'll invite some of mine and SIL can invite some of hers" lol because we'll invite the same old group of people and there prob. won't be anyone new :). But that's good because it'll be "our" friends. I'm not going to get too involved in the planning so I don't take over. If he wants advice or help then great but I think this time I'll let him do the most of the planning.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*