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Well, I don't think it will change my plans. I was planning on waiting until January anyways, and my boss thinks that we may be back to our normal pay by then.

Hopefull I can get some things paid off while still at my mother's and it won't change my plans even if it doesn't return to normal.

The only thing it may change is WHERE I was planning on living. May have to go somewhere a little cheaper as those apts are pretty expensive. ...Just puts a kink in my debt paydown/living arrangements. Not fun but I can deal.

I am so glad we are getting off early. I have so many errands I need to run that I can never get done! I need this long weekend so bad.


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Have a great weekend, Kris!


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
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Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08
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Kris,,sorry to hear of the paycut. Hopefully it will only be temporary.

Roll Tide..they are off to a good start..that's a big win..

I will be in Birmingham in about 10 days..are you near there?

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I am just north of B'ham...Ian said something about you guys being there....I'm not gonna be here though\:\(. I am going to the M State/Auburn game.

The paycut is not too bad, it could be worse. I have heard this morning that some people did lose jobs in other departments...so at least I still have a job. It would be bad for me to lose my job in this area...I would definitely have to relocate.

I had a good weekend but I am so freakin' tired. I don't feel like I am ever going to catch up on my rest. At least it is a short week at work.


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I am just north of B'ham...Ian said something about you guys being there....I'm not gonna be here though. I am going to the M State/Auburn game.




Our loss. Would have been nice to get together..maybe another time.

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Yeah, we'll have to get together some other time. I hope you guys have a good time!!


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So I just pulled my credit report (I am a little obsessive about finances...so I do that every couple of months.) Anyway, they had my previous address the same as OW#1's address. How weird is that?? There was nothing unusual on there and I did dispute it...so I guess I'll just keep an eye on it. Ugh, I can't get away from them.

The only thing I can figure is that when H was living with her she tried to cosign on a loan with him and then got a cell phone for him...so since we were already tied financially that address ended up on my report. At least I hope that is all it is.

I am so glad this is a short week! With all the cutbacks at work they got rid of all of our contract workers....and somebody has to do their jobs. I have to take over another person's job so now I am doing 2 people's jobs...and making less money for it. Not to mention it is something in a completely different department so I am totally lost. This guy is only going to be here until Friday to train me so it's going to be tough.

BUT...as I always say...it could be worse.


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Weird about the credit report.

I should do mine too. I'm due.

Glad there was nothing bad on there though.

Bummer about work, but good that you have a job! I hope the learning curve isn't too steep and you get through the week happily!

I can't wait for Friday lol.


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Hey klm,

Sorry to hear that things aren't so great at work and also about the pay cut. Maybe after a few months things will ease up. That does seem to happen quite a bit. One bad quarter and everyone panics. Hopefully the next one will be better.

I am the world's most anal person when it comes to my credit report. I was so worried for the longest time what ex may have been spending. When I finally got up the nerve to check it it was a load off of my shoulders. For the last year I have belonged to TrueCredit and now I can check my report whenever I get the urge. This really isn't necessary anymore but it's become like my drug of choice. I'm going to have to ween myself off of it. Pathetic isn't it?

Take care...........

Love,
Bethie

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Talking about Friday already, Michelle?!!! J/k - don't blame ya one bit - I'm looking forward to it, too! Going to a bachelorette party in Reno this weekend! Fun, fun, fun!

Sorry for the mini-hijack, Kris! Bummer about the extra workload you're taking on (with less pay! sucks), but yes, it could always be worse - and thankfully, it's not! \:\)

(((((Kris)))))


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
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