Lola, Don't let these things get you down. You and your friend will work things out, You are seeing baby steps with your H, and your XH...Well he will likely still act like an ass but if you "know" this you can be prepaired.
I have down days too...inevitably when I start thinking of things that could be "worse" than my sitch. So, all is not lost try to keep moving forward.
And here's a hug.
(((LolaL)))
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
