Well, that went ok. I called the phone. I said this is the family phone I expect the kids to answer it when I call.
Five minutes later the kids call. Her head is probally swimming.
Better hers then mine...
missmyfriend, yes the idea was or her diabolical plan was to leave and the kids wanted to be with her. However that didn't work. Son who was a momma's boy would never leave her side, stayed with me for almost every night during the first two months of seperation. I believe that drove her nuts. Her plan failed. Daughter was always very close to me. Little sport buddy. But she will not stay with me, because I believe that her mother brain washed her or something.
Now usually I let the kids decide where they wanted to stay. It always relieved my anxiety to know if one of the kids was with her at night. That way I knew she wasn't out screwing around. The kids never mention anybody else. But there is evidence of switching teams, which could be my imagination. Amongst other things.
I quess she isn't pushing the divorce because there really isn't anybody else, or something. I do not know. Maybe there was back around the holidays and that person turned out to be an a$$, aren't we all.
Yes it is a tough call. Really when she gets off work and my son screams at her, that he doesn't want to go with her. It sucks. I have to console him, and convince him to go. I know it helps her out, because she can sleep in.
