Letting go, Moving on

[AmyC]

You are right fig and I don't much like timelines either.

There was so much backstepping involved and so many levels of realization and self-actualization that today I will even go so far as to say I still wasn't fully out of MLC when I began to post here.

To say that coming out of MLC is a "process" is an understatement considering it takes one's whole life to end up in one.

[Cinderellaman]

what was the trigger that made it happen for you...? That made you start to snap out of it ?

My H is so very very gone, that I truly think it is impossible for him to come out of it....let alone wake up one day and actually miss me....

[frank_D]

There was so much backstepping involved and so many levels of realization and self-actualization that today I will even go so far as to say I still wasn't fully out of MLC when I began to post here.

To say that coming out of MLC is a "process" is an understatement considering it takes one's whole life to end up in one.

True, what I'm interested in is not 'how long' but what were the things you went through and what were you missing and when?

I'm interested in one persons journey and the 'signs' I would recognize along the way as perhaps 'ambivalence' or 'determination'.

How would I know this is MLC vs her just being done? Or will I never know?

Why did you miss your husband?