Thanks for visiting my thread. I know you are right and I am deliberately trying to understand this DB thing. So, for now, I have to let him go. It's hard, like you say, but I'm working toward that goal.
BTW, did you ever get the chance to put a *signature* behind your name so I can come visit your thread and converse/help you? I have wanted to find you, but it's helpless if you don't post there more often.