Amy...
I think you are doing so much for people by posting all of that

i worry that people will see a timeline and try to fit their spouses in there somewhere

AmyC is AmyC not your spouse and what took her such and such amount of time make take your spouse twice as long or half as long

there is no timeline
no light at the end
no being able to say...well they are here so they only have 3 more steps to go

it isn't like that


thank you Amy