I just went back to page 1, & read all the great advice your DB coach gave you !!! Talk about empowering. Wow !
You asked a question about if his "being nice" is wanting to get back together, or just being friendly because he can. Take things at face value.
Until he says "I want to give our M another try" anything short of that is him being nice.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
