Bethie, I am not sure that your H is as dumb as mine. I think mine wins the prize...really I do. SO we may have to flip for who gets the DUMB shirt and who gets the DUMBER shirt.

I keep hearing that I will come out of this a better person. I just don't wanna be a BITTER person. And as for sinking or swiming...well there are plenty of fish in the sea and I'm eventually looking to find me a great big one and let go of the one that is teensy but THINKS he is ginormous.

YAY for us!!!!

Hugs,
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller