Ok here is the scoop. We have not had sex except for one time in the past two or three years. He never wanted to "talk" about the sex. He just went out and did it, but I cannot work on the sex with him if he doesn't want to have sex with me. I can remember times when he literally pushed me off of him onto the floor.
Ok, this is really personal. I get that, but still, how could I 'work on' something as seriously wrong as this?
