The "last straw"? We put off our D at the last minute for the first time in June. Immediately after that, W didn't respons to any of my attempts to talk/phone/email. I then found out that she spent the next weekend away with OM. When she finally did talk to me, it was to tell me that putting off the D was a mistake and we should reschedule a court date asap. I was crushed, and any residual desire to keep fighting was gone.

What had I done to move on? I accepted a new job out of state, put an offer on a new house there, and if I hadn't gotten my M back, I would have moved this week. So when I say "move on", I mean more than just emotionally ready to move on -- I mean it literally!


Me45 W35 M6 T8
D16 SD11 D0
Dec 07: Bomb
July 08: Busted!
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