For example....

Let's say he says that he has been unhappily Married to you for the past 10 years.

Well, you know that's not true, maybe there were some bad days, or even weeks, but definately not the whole time.

Maybe he said that your sex life has been totally boring and he hates being intimate with you.

Or Maybe he says you have let yourself go and have gained weight or don't dress up for him.

Is this starting to make sense?

Maybe some of the things he says might be a little bit true, and those things are the areas you need to work on.

The other stuff, let it go.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.