BND,

I am being firm with her. Today is really the first day I have been texting her. Being firm with her. I'm not being cruel either. I'm using wording properly. I'm trying to get through to her that the kids need stability.

I need to keep her calm.

I'm trying to set the schedule. She is the one being difficult. I told her she needs to run the ice cream shop. you fire, you hire, you set the schedule. You take daylight then.

Or I go to your place and have the kids in bed on nights you work. But you you will not invite me in your place. Afraid I'll snoop or something. I don't care what you do or have.

I told her she needs to get a different job that has daylight.

It's on her.

I told her that the children need to stay with me on school nights that she works. She says daughter will not want to do that.

I said too bad. The children do not make the rules.

I'm on FB, but I need to figure out animity. I used my real name, and my email is my real name. Plus I can't use FB at work. Then there is about 500 other reasons I do not want to use it.