You can choose to live this insanity, which is not only driving her further away from you but also has you spinning like a top.
OR
Begin to set some boundaries.
Stop the texting.
You say you can't, but it is rather that you don't want to.
You are afraid to let go.
Any attention from her is good in your eyes, be it positive or negative, you long for the connection with her. That is why you put up with her BS on a daily basis.
Be firm, not unkind or cruel, but firm. Say what you mean and mean what you say.
Set the bloody schedule for your children already.
None of this is healthy for the kids, and it needs to stop, they must be going nuts.
Someone needs to be the adult in the relationship, and I choose you!!!
((((((hugs))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
