PATIENCE GRASSHOPPER

[Babygirl]

wow john hadnt seen this before, love the title. althougth patience is my worst flaw!
My mil said something to me the other day, about all the work that had been done with my H in our marriage if ya call it that. she then said sweetie, all the work that was done, you did, he hasnt done a thing yet. wow i hadnt even seen that! that is my new to think about and over analyze lol!
my H a few months ago, was gonna go on a business trip. I was ok with it, TIL I found out his boss wasnt going, the OW was going in the bosses place. I have NEVER threatened a D in this whole mess, but I plainly said, since this trip is optional, not mandatory, you go and she goes, we end, you will be served the second ya walk off that plane. and I guess he believed me, it wasnt a good time for him to go anyways no matter who went with my health issues, but he made the choice, AND told the boss, he wasnt going to leave me at this time. it kinda felt good, but at the same time, if we are gonna truly R, he should have said no right when he found out she was going, ya know?
I wont move, he can but i am not leaving. maybe it is time for you to rock her world my friend!