Is he starting to come home?

[smartcookie]

((((((((((BH)))))))))))) I just read your last two pages. You are amazingly strong. I am touched by your sharing, & honesty.

I don't think men do things out of "guilt", so I'd look at the same gestures as kindness. Also, the love can come back.

I think you're on the right track of be the best you can be. Fill your own love bucket. Ignore the OW. Try to be the person H fell in love with. I'd also keep up with the mystery. Whether he shows it or not, it should be making him think.