Poet,

You have to stop thinking logically in an illogical situation.

Nothing he says will make much sense to you right now.

There are some elements of truth in some of his words.

Learn to listen, and sieve out the BS.

It takes time to learn this skill, that is why detaching is so important.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.