Sorry to Tj here, but AmyC caught my eye. I feel the same way as a LBS. Reality jumped up and bit me. I had no option but to change, as self pity just didn't cut it, at least for me. Pain and loss can be great motivators as in my case.

So I was curious, what made you change? I think people rarely choose to change as it is hard work, usually there is a big motivator. Yours?


me 54
WAH 53
M 26 yr/T 30 yr
S 18
Sep April 07