Floyd, I am the last person who would suggest pushing a hand, but you need to with her. I am worried that she is playing you. I don't want you to get hurt anymore than you have been, and she really does need to make a decision and quit leaning on you for support in her other R. I just find that completely unfair to you. I am not exactly sure how you have put up w/ it, it would kill me if my H started discussing someone else w/ me. It is exactly the reason I won't discuss my M w/ XH, because it is just not fair. I think you have to stop it until she makes a decision, period. IMHO, you have to tell her until she makes a decision, she cannot call you, unless the first words are I have made a decision...
(((Floyd)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..